Thanks Dan, I have read through some of your posts and I really appreciate the advice from the other side I guess. He does the same as you, once a month.. he doesnt think its a problem as such, he said its an anxiety release from a build up. He is going to support groups and his counselling starts this month – did the counselling help you? what counselling do you do? it sounds similar to what youre going through with your GF at the moment, I have told him I will leave him, he cant help it either I dont think, its so hard to understand when youre not addicted to anything yourself – I havent even been addicted to a cigarette before so its hard to relate.. I feel so helpless I cant see no end, my anxiety and trust issues around this are beginning to worry me
