Reply To: Wife of an addict

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kass
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It’s so nice to know I’m not the only one in this position.

I know I should be feeling like I don’t care because he has treated us like rubbish for years! I hate his behaviour but I can’t hate him! I really wish I could!

Talking of sleeping with someone else, his behaviour towards me changed recently, kisses on end of texts stopped, and just generally attitude changed, then last week me and the children drive round the corner where he lives in the pub and the kids saw him kiss a women. I know the women and not at all angry with her, just hurt that he can move in when he always said he would only ever love me! I could not imagine kissing another man as I’m still in love with my husband.

He has denied this of course which hurts more as if he admitted it maybe I could deal with it but as he tells lies so easily I’m struggling to believe this was just a friendly goodbye kiss lol

I will always hold out hope and best wishes to anyone that can change so I do hope your hubby can do the right thing

Thanks for your hugs, they mean a lot and I’m sending some back in return!! X

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