Hey! Thanks for your reply.
I’m really glad to hear that you’re trying your best and you’re on track. Addiction is a horrible illness, so I wish you well.
My boyfriend is the same, he will only do cocaine if he has drank alcohol. I know he is young, but he was diagnosed when he was at rehab, and he was the youngest there. That’s what I am struggling with the most, he knows the tools and he knows what to do – he is clearly really struggling at the moment and all I wanna do is shake him but there is nothing I can do.
He does want to quit, he hates it and regrets it straight away but its something that gets the better of him unfortunately. He did it before, and I agree about changing his life. He has massively, he got a new job as his last wasn’t good for him, he has made new friends through rehab and going to meetings.
At the Christmas party, no I didn’t – I really did not want him to go and he didn’t want to go either. As he was new to the company he felt obliged to go and felt he would be able to just show his face and leave – but if you’re an addict – that is not going to happen. So I was not shocked that time around, just felt sad and hopeless.
How’re you finding things so far?