What happens is that a person becomes more selfish and what Eli’s happens is that sometimes you feel that a veil has been lifted from your ways and you are seeing things in a. Know clearer light. You don’t take no shot from people. If you feel like you have been putting more into the relationship you stop trying if the other person argues with you all the time. It’s like you think f*ck everything you care less. Makes your spirit meaner. He is doing more than you think ! Have a frank conversation with him without beatring around the bush and get to the point he will tell you his reasons and listen to them. As as his consumption insreaees hebwill get worse and his view will get more destrorted and he will retreat into a shell thinking everyone is against him
