Adamuk – onky trouble now is the he relapsed at Christmas and due to these sites telling you to stick to boundaries I threatened divorce. He then used that as an excuse to carry on using more as if he lost me and the kids he’s lost everything. He then was found chatting up a local barmaid, well he only told her she was attractive, but that is out of character for him. He says it’s bevause he feels like scum so some attention would be nice, and you have a fu*k it attitude so might as well fu*k everything up. I don’t think he’d physically cheat but I’m not happy about his behaviour at all!
By doing this do you think he would be putting the feelers out to move on with someone who he can lie to or wouldn’t mind his drug use like me. He says I’m crazy and there is no thought process behind it as you’re not thinking logically at the time, you’re not planning anything! He gets annoyed when I don’t understand.