firstly, you need to put your child first and if hes going to be on it while taking care of your child that needs to stop. If he has a heavy coke habit, its not curable over night and it takes a huge amount of dedication and he needs to want to stop.
addiction is so hard to understand when you’re not an addict yourself, coke morphs the brain and makes people so selfish and inconsiderate – I have threatened to leave mine, time and time again, the urge and addiction is just too much and it comes first.
He will lie and say he has stopped, theyre the best manipulators, have a read through some of these forums. If he doesnt want to go doctors and seek help go to rehab etc then it wont work, he will continue.
I feel for you as there is a baby involved, but you need to be strong and do whats best for you.