Yes it’s vile isn’t it? Off drugs my husband is the most amazing man you’ll meet, everyone adores him that’s why his behaviour is so bizarre.
It’s caused so many problems in our relationship. They say to set boundaries and stick to them but you know by doing this it will make them behave worse. If I threaten divorce now my husband has started telling other women that they are attractive etc. He says it’s because he feels like a scum bag and I’m always threatening to leave him, so these are all quick fixes in order to make himself feel better. He claims 100% that he loves me and wants to be with me and never has intentions of moving on, but then thinks “go away!” too I think, he sees me as a nag when he’s using.
I just keep making allowances because he’s on drugs, as he’d 100% never do these things sober. But where do you draw the line? He’s stolen my brother in laws car and damaged it, along with his dads, both intoxicated to pick up drugs. I mean he could have killed someone. He’s almost at times out of control, he says when he took his dads car it was almost like a cry for help, like he wanted someone to stop him so he could get help!
On different days, he’s different people, I swear! If he ever did cheat or leave me and go off with anyone else, I’d be gone for good. I’d never have him back after that!