I still think Georgia is right about him just wanting to manipulate me when he says that we should spend more time together. I’m very dubious about his motives. We both want the financial order. Me so I know I won’t be repossessed (so long as I get another job) and I am paying him off with enough money to clear his debts. …. I have a good idea what might happen to that ????????. But I think in his head after I get the financial order and he gets his money. I think he thinks he might come back! He is so confident of my love that he really thinks it I know it. Even just 2 months ago I would also have clung on to that hope but today something has changed and I think it is because I have been on here, but I don’t think my ex is showing any signs of wanting to stop. Living up the road from me, seeing his kids but not doing the hard day to day stuff. Not being any worse off financially for living separately due to paying me the mini,um, I think he’s laughing at me! I think my lovely soulmate is just a ghost and I don’t think he is ever coming back. And o don’t need a friend like the person he has become ad he shows absolutely no remorse or kindness towards me or our boys. I wish he showed me some hope like with your husband and Adam and Danman who all seem to be trying and genuinely care about their families. No mine is still firm
Y in arsehole mode.