Ok, he’s settled now.
Cally, have you not heard from him at all? That is weird after being together for so long. I can’t help but notice our husbands all appear to also be at midlife fe crisis age! I’m actually older than my husband but look much younger than him. He never took me out because he said men looked at me all the time, he has admitted to being very jealous. My ex is weird because he gets really angry at me and says of course he fancies me and that has nothing to do with it. He also said he was intimidated by me which made me feel like a real geezer bird but I think he meant because I am quite extrovert whereas without coke he is completely introverted.
Tonight he said he would clean the fish tank, sort my printer and music software and also build my new flat pack tv unit. I find it really confusing that he says these things. We are getting divorced and it doesn’t feel normal to act like that. He gives very mixed messages.
He was out tonight and tried to play it down but he was driving and it is impossible for him to go out without drinking or drugs. He’ll drive over the limit on something for sure, but again it made me laugh as he said “for a bit” haha! Bit of what…?
Cally, I really do feel for you as it is early stages for you. This has been going on for me for 18 months and at 3 months I was a stone lighter stairing into space and crying at work!
Do you have support nearby you? I’m worried for you as without my friends and family I think I would have had a nervous breakdown!
B9889 do you not think the al anon very helpful then? I’ve read up on the 12 steps. I’m definitely on board with the powerlessness bit! xx