Thank you for your message I appreciate it. We’ve been together a year now, when I first met him I knew he dabbled in coke but not the excessive drinking, he never drank in front of me. We moved in together and that’s when things changed. I don’t do drugs and don’t drink excessively or at home. After I confronted him last night for lying he kicked off and said he has to lie to me because I’m normal, after he screamed in my face he then went out and came back with more alcohol so last night all I could hear was him sniffing cocaine and drinking, I went into the kitchen this morning and found 4 bottles of prosecco and 7 beers so in three days he has consumed 12 bottles of prosecco and 11 beers. I’m frustrated with the lies when I try and tell him the lies don’t help my mental state he just shouts and calls me abusive things. Also I sense something else isn’t right, the house was left like I left it and he said he’d disgarded all the bottles on the way to work, now I know what the house looks like after he has been on one. Now I’m questioning everything, was he even here, did he have someone here and went on a savage clean up or did he try and cover his tracks and make the house look like I left it. My gut is telling me it isn’t right. I’ve tried asking him and he looses in and says I’m bipolar, mental, etc etc and he is going to get himself a normal girlfriend x
