[dnanon]

Hi Bluebell, yes it is awful as I know where he is but he won’t answer or let us in. I asked his gf to pick up his xmas presents that we bought him but we have no idea whether he opened them. Sent him messages for the New Year – nothing back! It sounds to me like you really don’t need your ex as you are coping just fine with your kids and their challenges. Hope you can rely on your parents for help too. Don’t be afraid to ask. We do our bit for all our grand children and sometimes more to try and make up for their dad not being around.