I will be completely honest with you, I noticed my boyfriends problem about a year ago. It took him a whole year of me nagging, crying and begging for him to get help until he finally realised he had a problem.
Unless he REALLY wants to stop, then he wont, it cant be done half hearted. My bf went to the doctors they sent him to support groups etc.
I really feel so bad for you, you are young though and starting your adult life, I personally wouldnt get dragged down by this. Addiction is an incurable disease and it can only be managed and i find that hard to accept, I too don’t want to be 10 years down the line arguing about drugs/drink.
Isnt it just the worst feeling, I am so anxious all the time.. I am 26 and I want a family now and to get married but I am constantly in fear of my bf relapsing, hes going counselling which seems to be helping.
how often does he do it? does he fully admit his problem? and girl – i am the same! his Mum doesn’t take it seriously and says its an anxiety release, yes, it is. But its an addiction and even he admits it! so frustrating.