No my son has still not been in touch with me. I spent all day crying on Friday being snappy with my husband because that’s what we do. I sent my son a text today to say I was feeling better and asked how he is – nothing back! My husband has text him to let him know about the research I have been doing to try and help him. He has text him back to say to stop texting him about drugs or in his words ‘that sh-t or he will stop responding to him. He has also said he is going away for a week, (nothing to do with drugs). It’s no use texting his’gf’ as she won’t tell us anything but says she is doing her best for him!
Danman, you have come through the worst and are doing really well. Keep it up, but remember about how it can creep up on you so just stay aware. You enjoy your family time.
Bhoyo I am amazed how you are functioning and managing to have your kids 50/50. I hope you do try to stop because I have seen what it can do to families and children. My son hasn’t seen his children since November and he hasn’t been in contact with them or the mums. No Christmas presents for them. He is not functioning or living an exciting life. He is no longer working and doesn’t want to. He isn’t going out and partying, however I realise he may be partying on his own.