Everything you are saying is absolutely true and I do know as I have read the books and know about the lab rats choosing cocaine over food and ultimately dying. We have attended a support group but stopped going as my hubby just wanted to know how to help our son and it was about us. He just won’t give up on him and feels he is doing this if we don’t keep trying to contact him. Our son has been using cocaine for 8-10 years now so you would think that he would be getting to that stage by now. Two relationships ruined, losing his house, no job, not seeing his kids. How much lower can he go! This has affected all our family, not just us but the family member we are paying the money back to, his brother and family and our grand-children (his kids). I wish we could be strong and disassociate with him but he is our son and we can’t move on.
