I think there may be some truth in what you are saying B8988. We signed the divorce papers on Monday night and I think it upset my ex husband as he asked for a hug afterwards ad then again tonight he actually asked for a hug. I try to just remind myself that I must keep moving forward, much as I will love him forever, I cannot let him hurt me or the boys any more. Tonight he dropped the kids off early and said that he was tired so going to bed as in London tomorrow. Yet he got in his car and drove the opposite way to home to God knows where. And that really is the sum of it. He cannot change. I doubt he does have a woman which is most people’s reaction to this behaviour. He’s just off to score. I don’t know what will be rock bottom, but I am powerless to help him and so am trying to save myself and my kids.
