Hi Claire, like above I think your partner has done really well. From reading other posts it seems that a relapse is part of the recovery and it’s how the person deals with it. I can also understand your apprehension whether it will be a one off. He probably genuinely felt he would be ok and with you there. Obviously that wasn’t the case so bear in mind for the future. It sounds like he wants to continue with his recovery and leave the relapse behind as a blip. Maybe give him the benefit of continuing supporting him with his recovery. I am sure you would notice the changes in his behaviour if he relapses again. But also explain to your partner how you feel about the relapse and talk about it before putting it behind for you both. Good luck x
