Hi
Me again!
Just wanted some advice, bluebell and Danman any ideas on the below?
Had no contact for 5 weeks with my husband.
So I found where my husband is living he ordered something from just eat from my account so could see his address!!
Against my better judgement I went there as had some paperwork and needed to know what was going on with divorce etc.
I got there and there was a young girl in there with him he is 42 and she is 22, so I knocked and said to him that’s the final kick in the teeth etc and was upset.
He came out and said what do you think I am a weirdo??? We are flat mates sharing half the bills etc.
I drove home and 1hr later he turns up crying saying he had to give me space what he has done to me is unacceptable. He said he hadn’t stopped Coke but was not doing as much. He said he could not come home as if he did it again to me it would destroy me. He said I was a beautiful person and deserve more and I am too good for him.
He transferred £1500 into my account as he knows I am struggling with bills etc.
He said he knows he loves me but feels empty and is just angry all the time etc.
He left then rang the next day and was like a different person, saying you have to move on it’s hard but dint live you.
He then rang later saying I have bought you these vitamins as you look to thin and I will transfer more money over.
His sister has just rang and said have you seen him? He is off work today (4th time in a new job) so it will be curtains for him this time I reckon?
My head is all over the place at the moment.
Thanks
Cally