Hi Dan
He is a operations manager with a large firm and this girl worked at the same place so even that is weird in itself as I do the same job and I would certainly raise eyebrows where I work, but I know they spoke from time to time, he can be a charmer as well and she will be impressionable.
Unless like bluebell says she also takes coke so he has a little side kick, the guy I know would be horrified if his friend was going that etc, our niece who we love is 20 just so wrong!
He definitely hasn’t cut down he looks grey and I always know what someone tells you how much you should double or triple the guy is too far gone.
Not sure if you read any of my other posts but he was having it every day and he said he was goin 2 eight balls in easy on a binge and whatever else he takes.
Your right he is on another planet but that’s whats hard as he really was a decent guy b4 all this but I think some people are beyond or don’t want help.
Cheers