Hi popples, im in the same situation as your bf.. but ive been with my gf for 10 years and have 4 kids together.. 1 step kid of each..
At 1st i was going to disagree with these lovely ladies above lol
But tbh they are right! You have no ties with him! No children with him.. and yo dont live with him.. so you dont need that burden.
So no matter how much it hurts. Id move on.. plus the next guy you meet.. make him fill in a questionnaire..with this 1st 2 questions… 1. Do you do coke..2. I want to see what my future mother in law is like 1st haha