Thanks Georgia I appreciate your honesty it is hard to read because you do you keep believing that it is possible for them to change but deep down I know you’re right he’s already lied about so much stuff even for my first date or to cover his addiction turns out his wife left him because of his addiction he’s lost so much because of it already I can’t believe anyone wouldn’t want to stop it get a new life but I guess the drug takes a hold of you -most people can’t imagine I guess.
Any suggestions on what I say to him to end it because I know you’re trying talk me round and promise me everything is there anything I can say that will leave him with one last thought he needs to sort his life out not for me as I’m practically gone, I’ve been thinking about this for months now, not for anybody else but himself and his kids?
is your partner still behaving like you say? How do you cope hun? Lou xx