Thank you sincerely, why do you think they make such good liars? Probably practice makes perfect I reckon and probably because they have to over think everything and everyone to stay one step ahead it becomes second nature. I haven’t heard from him for near on 2 days now which is how I know he’s off on one, The post on here saying it was a sneaky addiction it’s true he holds down a professional job and to the outside world there are no problems he is Mr sociable and everyone likes him but I’ve seen a different side recently the mood swings and manipulation and lies the constant smoking mirrors it’s hard work and I think if I’d known where this bus was going I would never of got on as my ex was similar but in a different way. I told him that’s why we finished and he says that why he hid stuff from me but I see now lies and deceit is a way of life for him now.
It’s a shame because we are v compatible in all other ways but this overshadows everything now. You’re right in everything you say thanks Lou x