Do you know what alan.. i dont know you. But i wish you was my dad. Lol
The support you are giving him.. the sitting down chatting about it and joining the gym together. I cant fault you. You should be proud of your self.
Just keep making him be aware and to cut down on it. At least just have it fridays to chill out say.
But get to the gym. Its perfect. Try and do something with him at weekends instead of his mates.
Its coke he wants to stay away from aswell. Im 6 weeks clean from that. Tell him avoid it at all cost and other things.
But going back to my dad, he just screamed his head of at me. And make me really edgy all the time and scared me.
So your doing the right thing.
Another thing i wanted to say, but my best friends sister. Who i have known all my life. Shes 39 and got diagnosed
With stage 4 lung cancer and kidney and bone in december. Shes been smoking weed everyday for years. And probably wont make it till xmas. And she has 3 young kids. Ita heartbreaking. But the smoking weed everyday could be what caused it??