Hi all, was hoping to give us all hope here today, but alas I’m empty and cold. My son (21) went to path2recovery yesterday by himself, normally I go to but he said no he wanted to try and face it himself so I stupidly respected his decision . . . He arrived back home this morning at the time he should have gone to work, out of his head and had driven!!! Needless to say passed out and a new job he has let down already, didn’t even manage a week. I discovered my mother lent him money!!!!! So I have become the mother from hell, taken his bank card, car keys and house keys and house is permanently locked, I’ve hidden all keys. If he has a job Monday he can have only his car keys. . If not home when I lock up then his problem. I feel So let down his grandmother gave him money she knew not too . . . Now I feel alienated from her too. How the heck do we stop this cycle, how do we help?!?!? There MUST be a way!!!
