Hi Danman, with regard to my son’s gf I don’t think she is controlling but I think she stands by him and supports him whatever he is doing. We haven’t known her long but he has been living with her since before he sold his house. She helped us clear and clean his house. I have asked her when she thinks we can see/talk to him but not had a reply yet. I think you have got confused with another post as his gf isn’t pregnant. He stopped contacting us after he got his money from selling the house. Maybe he went on a coke binge and then felt guilty about it so has hardly been in touch since. We just don’t know. Something has defo gone on this week though. We just have to wait and see if he or she gets in touch.
Seems like you are still being good which is fantastic. How’s the decorating going?