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Hi Lou and Georgia, thanks for your messages ????. It’s a great question and a difficult one to answer. My opinion (and only that) is it depends how much they are sacrificing. If they are choosing doing that over spending time with you, or choosing it over life with you or spending all your money then I’m not sure. I’m doing too much and it’s not good and does effect my and my wife’s life, but I don’t massively compromise any of those things massively. I do it because it relieves some stresses at the time (I know it causes more) and that makes me feel good (at the time)! I know it’s daft etc but for those few hours things that normally feel like a pain, don’t matter as much, e.g work pressures