I’m in your position chic my partners habit (coke) has landed I am in a lot of debt also with the HMRC credit cards personal loans and basically just debt everywhere, he’s probably going to have the bailiffs round soon, not that there’s much in his house to take now. He doesn’t go out, just takes it in the house with his housemate which I find very bizarre. He’s lost a marriage and jobs because of it also and the lies are continuous. You’re right it’s the cheating, deception and lies that do your head in.
I agree with the previous post, one last chance won’t make a scrap of difference he’s obviously not ready to give it up, more drastic action is required however you have to live with that and if one last chance gives you more peace do it, but don’t hold your breath chic, good luck Lou x