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Thank you Georgia, you are right I don’t know for certain that he’s been clean for the last 18 months. Cocaine use is difficult to spot if the use is steady and not excessive. There are signs though that he has been clean – no sniffing for one. Anyway, the damage is done. I just hope he can avoid relapsing, and take responsibility for this mess. In the meantime I’m looking for a lawyer and starting proceedings., and hoping that he can look after himself with the help of his family for the sake of our lovely kids.