Thanks for your reply it honestly helps me when people get back to me – can I ask why you think he might get sent down ? For what
reason? I live in a close community also and worry about what people think too but I guess thats something you can’t do anything about -people will always think what they think and to be honest most people don’t understand I didn’t before I was in this situation as I’m sure you didn’t too, and probably judged too – I’ve stopped drinking now and feel better for it, it was just a crutch, but not a good one I know. Thank you for replying I really do appreciate it as like you I don’t have anyone to talk to apart from my dad who’s 81 and I don’t think he would understand x Lou x