Hi Hox, you need to stop thinking that this is all part of your fault as it isn’t and you shouldn’t be ashamed at all. Why shouldn’t you go to the gym? So what if people know you and your husband. You might find they won’t say anything. If they do just fob them off and say you haven’t seen him for a while. Have you got any work friends you could got out with? You really need to start getting yourself out there and living your own life x
