[dnanon]

Hi Bluebell, it’s easy for me to say but I think you need to knock your partner’s visits on the head. You don’t need to be there for him any more, especially if he is still using. I understand what you say about him seeing the kids though and wanting to make sure he is in a fit state to have them. Is there something you could be doing in the house whilst he could be with your children? He has got an absolute nerve suggesting you could rub cocaine into your gums! It’s obvious he isn’t interested in quitting. You have to think about what is best for yourself and your kids. Like you said your son said it’s better when he’s not there.