Hi, I’m in exactly the same boat. I have someone who is addicted to crack cocaine and was addicted to heroin. Can’t say they got clean from heroin as it keeps resurfacing. I have stood by for 14 years. Nothing has changed,maybe only the lies or that they don’t go off for days on end. They are unreliable with money and dont have any responsibility. I left once but that didnt help. Cant twll you to stay or leave but know that it will and does become part of your life if you do stay. You become addicted to the chaos if that makes sense, addicted to helping them. It’s hard and horrible but make sure you look after you. Have you a friend you can confide in?
