I have been your wife.. it is the hardest thing ever to deal with, but she will deal with it – my partner is doing what you did – going to meetings, he desperately wanted help and he got it and hes doing so well and its made us even stronger.
I am so proud of him now and if you get through this and come out the other side youll both be stronger than ever.
Dont take what she says personally, I used to get angry and say horrible things as i didnt understand. I didnt mean it though, i was just hurting.
What help are you seeking? how much were you using? how long have you been clean? does she have support?