Hi Bella, yes your messages are coming through fine. I really do feel for you. It doesn’t sound like he is committed to quitting although he does go to the meetings. Perhaps he would benefit from 1-1 meetings with a counsellor. My son did this for a while. I think if it is a group meeting individual people can just go along with it and maybe take a back seat. Just advice but what about if you put your foot down and said you aren’t prepared to stay with him if these are the choices he is making. My son has ended up losing two good relationships with his partners and not seeing his two children for quite some time. He is back seeing his kids now and he messaged me the other day but that’s after a few months of no response. I am doubtful that he has stopped as he has been doing this off and on for 10 years now. It’s early days for you but like I said before if he continues it will only get much worse. I’m not trying to scare you just prepare.
You take care and let me know how you get on x