Hi there hope your ok?, anyway.. im going through a cocaine problem right now.. im 35, 4 kids.. and a partner and we all live together. I quit on new years eve. Which ill explain in a min why.. but i lapsed 2 month later.. then ive not touched it for 5 week since then. So its been once since new year.
I was having it in the house on my own, after i had stop going out at the weekends. I never thought i was addicted.. but i was. I was just having it fridays.. every couple of week.. or once a month.
For abour 6 to 8 years.
If you take coke just once a month for 6 month.. your addicted! Watch louise clarke on you tube on crack cocaine part 123.. shes great and can help your son to quit.. and make yourself aware of it!
When the coke wears off, its called a comedown.. this sends me depressed and suicidal. Its really not good at all. And in them videos it explains why. Its horrible. Ive been crying in the house on my own. I know people that have killed them selfs down from it.
Now.. me personally id have a quiet, no shouting chat with your son.
But this is what he needs to do to stop. With what i have done and researched
Stay away from anyone to do with coke. Delete mates, dealers numbers.
Dont drink any alcohol! As this triggers you to want to get coke.
Take up some new hobbies. Change your whole routine around! Talk to people. Look up emotional, mental, and physical relapse.
But the main thing is.. HE HAS TO WANT TO QUIT HIMSELF!! you cant force him..
I hate the stuff.. but if i had a drink now. Ill get coke within 10 min.. hope this helps