[desperate-mother]

Thank you so much for responding. Yes it has helped a lot.

He does have depression and has said he is suicidal – and now I know why. I hadn’t associated alcohol with using coke – but i can see that now. I did try speaking to him yesterday but ended up him walking off again telling me I had no idea and what an awful I was suggesting he does drugs! So – won’t be speaking to me again for a while!!

Could I just ask you a question. When I have suspected he has used coke, and more so this last time, his eyes go sunken and sore looking – he has tried to pass this off as depression and crying – is that how your eyes go? And rather than enlarged pupils they’re small like pin holes.

Thank you so much for responding.