Id tell his family.. i told my mum and asked for help and i was ashamed of my self. But she checks and helps me alot. He needs support to fight this disease, not to keep it all locked up inside.
Ive lapsed 1 time bella since new years eve. I hate the stuff. But when i have alcohol.. i need to get some coke. So i have quit it.
Ill tell you what i have done to quit and hope it helps
Firstly .. he must want to quit.. thats the main thing. Then the rest will fall in to place but its hard.
He needs to cut off everyone to do with coke! Friends, dealers.. even family who take it. Delete all there numbers. Dont block there numbers as they stay on the phone.. delete them!
Avoid alcohol.. going to the pub. Just stick to nice meals or cinema or things like this.
Avoid trigger points.. i.e.. corner shop were he picked coke up.. or driving past houses were hes partied. This makes you want to get coke.
Come off all social media! Start a new life.. change things.. start going the gym.. walking.. reading.. decorating.. anything.
And watch louise clarke on you tube on crack cocaine part 123.. this women is an expert in it all.. and she will explain it soo well what it does and how to stop.
Hope this helps. Just ask if you need out bella