I agree again with Danman83. If I had a time machine, I would have told my husband’s parents, and mine, as soon as I found out. Addiction thrives on secrecy. Don’t underestimate how bad things can get – you need all the support you can get. I also watched the Louise Clarke videos on youtube – very helpful in helping you as the non-addict what is going on in the addict brain. Good luck – I hope things get better for you all.
