Hi lexi.. im in same boat as your husband. But im doing my very best to stop. And the good thing and main thing is he wants to stop.
Whats happened to him is whats happened to me.. you take it coke on nights out.. for years.. you stop going out.. but your addicted and use coke on your own in the house!. Its sad, but its a disease at the end of the day.
I quit on new years ever after 8 years on n off of it. Mainly once ever couple of week.
Coming down of it.. it makes you suicidal.. depressed. Its not good at all. And thats why i have to stop.
After 8 weeks i lapsed. But since then its been 5 week. So ive had it once in 3 month.
To stop.. your hubby needs to cut all his mates off to do with coke! Delete there numbers! And dealers! Even avoid family who take it!
Avoid alcohol! It triggers it.. and is my main trigger to use.
Avoid pubs and going out.. stick to cinema and restaurants. It will be really hard but then, you have to say how bad do you want to stop?
He needs to change his routine around, go gym.. walking, decorate, focus on saving for something. Any new hobbies to distract you.
Also watch some videos on you tube of louise clarke on crack-cocaine part 123.. they are great and she teachers you things i didnt even know about coke and how to stop.
There is an app called pocket rehab.. its great! Tell him download it. . Its were addicts and ex help each other, and tell there stories and press a panic button to get put through to another addict or ex.. to talk u out of using. You basically help one another.
But this all narrows down to how much he wants it. I dont want to lose my children or kids. He needs stay in for a while. And take each day as it comes. Just ask if u need any help. Good luck