Hi Danman, well I suppose it was too much to expect a card or text actually on ‘Mother’s Day’ from my son! Apparently last week his ex told him it was mother’ day and he text me then and said he had a card. I knew in my heart that he hadn’t got a card. What is v odd is that this morning I got a text off his ex wishing me happy Mother’s Day. On Friday my husband managed to contact him and took him out for lunch. He didn’t push him regards anything. Yesterday he took his son fishing. We are thinking that when he doesn’t have the kids may be he goes on it then. I don’t know anymore, so upset today. I found a card he sent me last year that I kept so I could remember what he once said. To be honest Danman, you may even know my son as we live in Bolton, although he is a couple of years younger than you.
Anyway hope you have spoken to your mum today. You keep up with the battle. I am sure eventually it is going to get easier and easier and the dreams are all part of the journey you have to go through to stay clean. So, you have almost done the decorating and got bored with the books. Have you got a garden to do some digging in? Or, my other son who is your age loves watching football, darts, horse racing etc on telly. He’s even got his son, who is nearly 6, into watching football with him and even worse he supports BWFC!!