Hey, thanks for the reply.
That makes sense on the emotional relapse. And yes your right he makes things out more than it is as an excuse.
It must be awful dealing with that. I’ve done it recreational years ago with friends but never became addicted. So i can’t rationalise how if that makes sense it takes a hold of you. But he’s been doing it years and a lot I think past 3-4 years so it’s taken it’s toll.
That’s awesome advice I’ll look into that app.
Hope your ok and keep strong it’s hard but at least your trying and that is all that counts.
I hoped after he took his life last year he said he’d change didn’t drink or anything else for 4 months and then just one bad day triggered old memories or whatever and relapses.
His current cycle is 3 weeks and binges so he does do it every day but when he does he doesn’t stop blows £200 or more and the drinking is ridiculously out of control.
Anyway thanks for your advice! Good luck!