And I’m back, I don’t know how to be around him anymore as I cannot stand him when he takes cocaine. He thinks he’s normal but he isn’t. I’ve just asked him if he can set aside some time this weekend to talk to me when he isn’t on drugs. I think I need to really put some boundaries in place for myself. I’m not sure giving him an ultimatum is best as hell just get stressed out. What am I supposed to do? I don’t want drugs in my house anymore. I want him to pay his way for living in my home and to at least make an effort to pay back what he has taken. He’s told me so many times he wants to give up but he has never got any help. Just tries the same thing over and over. Do you think it’s fair that I say to him that I’m not willing to be with him if he’s not going to get help? It’s his choice if he wants to continue taking drugs but it’s not something I can be a part of anymore. It’s been 3 years. I’ll of course support him if he genuinely wants to give up tho. I’ve got him those Chinese herbs and that Louise Clark book and will give him them when we talk. But I don’t want to keep being taken for a ride. I’m 36, I want to have a family and plan a future.
