Thank you for your advice, I’m sorry to hear about your relationship, are you still with your husband?
There has definitely been damage done to ours over the last few years and I have wanted to leave but he’s made massive changes over the last 6 months so I’m holding on for a bit longer.
He has done what you said with his friends, they all know that he drinks coffee or juice when they meet up so that’s really helped him keep a bit of a social life but even though his family know he doesn’t drink, they’re not the type to discuss things openly, everything is always such a secret which makes this harder for him.
I’m trying to keep him busy and we’re drinking a lot of hot drinks! Fingers crossed it will be ok, it has been easier today.
Thanks again for your honest advice