Youre not alone.. I think this is more common than we realise. Thank god i found this site.
Ah Dan, I do try.. its been hard but i think we are finally getting there – he really is dedicated to this though, he did have to hit rock bottom.
Some people dont want to stop but their partners want them to, thats when it doesnt work as you cant make someone do something they dont want to do, not with addiction anyway.
its a shame there isnt local meeting groups for people like us, there probably is – i would be worried to go to local ones though i would probably bump into people i know.. which would mortify my boyfriend, hes embarrassed by his addictions. His Mum was a drug addict too so it makes you think – maybe in some cases it is genetic
Me too Dan, i hope he stays off it all to be honest – i truly would have to walk away from it if he does, i wont continue. I cant consume my life to this. I will support him as much as i can but if he ends up like he was i just cant, it sent me insane.. i would be having panic attacks everytime he left the house. The feeling is horrible.
Hes given up other things that used to temped him too (if you get what i mean) i think you have to eliminate everything to do with it really, even drinking
I hope youre all doing ok though staying strong xxx