I was bad on weed shelly for a bout 5 years as a teenager. I made my mum n dads life hell. It made me really angry all the time.
But then my life just flew by.. getting stoned all the time, just makes you not wanting to do anything all. Even tho i had great times. I regret doing it.
Any ways.. i wanted to quit.. i never smoked.. just weed… the way i quit.. i was 18 and decided to go in the army.. knowing i had a drugs test 8 month away. This was my focus! And i got a calender, and ticked each day off at a time.
I got there in the end, but i failed a medical. And didnt join. But in a way, i think it was me deep down just wanting a way to quit.
Your bf needs to want to quit no matter what. If hes planning on leaving you for it.. pack his bags for him lol.
Or tell him to cut down.. say every other day.. then weekends.
Does he smoke just weed or cigs aswell