Thank you for your reply, it’s most appreciated.
Unfortunately I don’t think any kind of communication would be effective.
Two years ago I approached him regarding drinking, I said he was drinking too much as we all dreaded his behaviour on an evening.
The one evening I saw him drinking down the garden so I tried you make a joke of it and he snapped calling me all names under the sun as well as pointing out how weird I am for watching him and wether I was monitoring his drinks.
I denied it but of course I was, also had known for months of his hidin places for enpty vodka bottles but was not sure how to approach.
I went looking as I knew he was hiding something.
He has in the last 8 months stopped drinking.
I’m not sure if the medication has increased to substitute but know full well he did both at the same time.
I also in the midst of him accusing me of all sorts and calling me mental
Explained I only had concern over his health, I really am not interested in telling anyone what they can and can’t do, however I do not want any harm to come to him and that’s my only concern.
I suppose I’m trying to understand if his unreasonable behaviour is down to the meds, which he really can’t recognise and blames everyone else.
Every argument he starts with me r my two daughters is our fault not his