Hey jenny.. hope your doing well.. your in a situation were, if hes not willing to get help, you dont want to kick him out, incase something happens so you have to take the shit basically.. or you kick him out and tell him you have done your best, he will have to learn the hardway.. or tell him.. thats it now, you get help, he proves to you that hes getting help or he leaves. Thats only advice i can give.. if hes not prepared to get help.. do you want to live like that anymore? Its not good for you? Is there no family member that can make him see sence?
