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Same here once or twice a year, then he got greedy.

I too felt like I was married to a completely different person, unrecognisable. It was shocking the changes in him.

My husband too would sleep all day after his all night sessions.

I don’t think you are playing the victim at all, you are suffering through all of this. I found support on here when I had nowhere else to turn. People that understood what I was going through.