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I couldn’t talk to family or friends either, I wanted to keep it quiet.

I found that he didn’t care about anything the alcohol and coke came before my feelings. I found my husband would try to manipulate me and would lie which was completely out of character.

You can tell him how you are feeling but it won’t make him stop. He has to want to stop using. My ‘husband’ didn’t think he had problem never mind an addiction to the stuff. Stopping wasn’t an option at the time.

I do understand only too well.