Yes course.. if he is lapsing say every 2 month. For a start hes doing good. I quit at new year.. didnt touch for 2 month. And my gf said we been invited to a party.. i said plz can we not go and you just stay in with me i dont want get coke.. she said i be fine.. and i got it… i was gutted..
Anyways .. if hes hitting 2 month and hes lapsing.. he must be thinking a few things .. that hes ok now and he can go past these trigger points.. eg.. driving past were he use pick drugs up.. he can have a drink now.. he can go to friends and not use while they use.
The fact is.. 2 and 3 month is a sneaky stage of lapse.. it creeps up on you and your brain is playing games with you making it ok to get it.
My advice is coming up to 6 week..mainly the week he normally lapses.. is he needs to up alertness if you get me. He knows whats coming. May be do a plan for the next 2 week of hobbies or something. Each day write things.. go for walk… meal.. gym.. a book.. decorate..
He and you both know its coming. Hes not going to be ok for another year.. may be longer.. so no matter what.. he is not ok at 8 week if he thinks he is. He needs not to drink any alcohol at all. This is a main trigger.
And you support him as much as he can. If he goes out with friends on that 8 week mark. Say no you are not.
Have you watched louise clarke on you tube on crack cocaine part 123.. get them watched you will learn alot.. and she explains what happens at the 2 month mark and what to do.
Feel free to ask me anything