Hi Len,
Thanks for posting. You sound a really strong person and your partner is so lucky to have your support.
However, if you feel the need for any help for yourself please get in touch with us at The Icarus Trust. We are a charity providing support for people in your situation as we know how hard it is to deal with the impact of a family member’s addiction.
You can contact The Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the best to you and your partner.